Relationship 關(guān)系
Relationship 關(guān)系
——Gary Zukav
只有當(dāng)你有勇氣處理人際關(guān)系時，你才會成長。
——蓋瑞·祖卡夫
Matt Damon
Whatever you do, just keep listening, even to people you don’t agree with at all.
——Matt Damon
不管你做什么，要始終善于聆聽，甚至對你絲毫不贊同的人也要如此。
——馬特·達(dá)蒙
You can’t do it alone. You’ve got to surround yourself with good people.
——Russell Wilson
你不能獨自一個人做事。你身邊必須有優(yōu)秀的人幫助你。
——拉塞爾·威爾遜
It’s important to reflect and celebrate, and be grateful for those who bring learning and love into your life.
——Jeff Huber
反思和慶祝很重要，要感恩那些給你的生命帶來知識和愛的人。
——杰夫·胡貝爾
To not only take risks, but to be open to life. To accept new views and to be open to new opinions.
——Denzel Washington
不僅要愿意冒險，還要對生活敞開胸懷。要接受新的看法和新的觀點。
——丹澤爾·華盛頓
Barack Obama
Everything else is unfulfilled if we fail at family, if we fail at that responsibility.
——Barack Obama
如果我們在家庭中失敗，未能履行家庭的責(zé)任，那么其他任何方面都不能算成功。
——巴拉克·奧巴馬
I didn’t make it that far on my own. I mean, to accept that credit or that medal would discount every single person that has helped me get here today, that gave me advice, that made an effort, that gave me the time, that lifted me up when I fell. And it gives the wrong impression that we can do it all alone. None of us can. The whole concept of the self-made man or woman is a myth.
——Arnold Schwarzenegger
我不是單靠自己走到了今天。我是說，接受這個稱號或獎?wù)乱馕吨H低曾經(jīng)幫助我走到今天的每一個人，每一個給我建議的人，每一個為我做出努力的人，每一個在我跌倒時拉我一把的人。那會給人錯誤的印象，以為我們可以獨自完成一切。我們中沒有人可以做到。自我成就的男人或女人這整個概念是一種謬見。
——阿諾德·施瓦辛格
Work hard, be kind, and amazing things will happen.
——Conan O’Brien
努力工作，善待他人，美妙的事終會發(fā)生。
——柯南·奧布萊恩
Drew Houston
So they say that you’re the average of the five people you spend the most time with. So let’s think about that for a second: Who would be in your circle of five? ... One thing I’ve learned is that surrounding yourself with people who inspire you is now just as important as being talented or working hard.... Your circle pushes you to be better.
——Drew Houston
人們說，你是與你共處時間最長的五個人的平均值。我們不妨花一秒鐘來想一想：誰會在你的五人圈子里？……我學(xué)到的一個道理就是，現(xiàn)如今在自己周圍聚攏一群激勵自己的人很重要，與具備天分或努力工作一樣重要……你的圈子促使你變得更加優(yōu)秀。
——德魯·休斯頓
For whatever you’re doing, there’s one place in the world where the best people go. And you should go there. Don’t settle for anywhere else. Like being able to meet my heroes and learn from them gave me a huge advantage. So your heroes are part of your circle too—so follow them.
——Drew Houston
不論你在做什么，世界上都有一處地方匯聚著頂尖的人才。你應(yīng)該去那兒，而不要在其他任何地方將就。就好像我能遇到自己心目中的偶像，從他們身上學(xué)到東西，這給了我很大的優(yōu)勢。所以你們的偶像也是你們?nèi)ψ拥囊徊糠帧Х滤麄儭?/p>
——德魯·休斯頓
Life is not lived in the glow of a monitor. Life is not a series of status updates. Life is not about your friend count—it’s the friends who actually you can count on.
——Eric Schmidt
我們并不是生活在顯示器的熒熒之光里。生活也不是一系列的狀態(tài)更新。生活中重要的不是你的朋友數(shù)量——而是你能實實在在靠得住的朋友。
——埃里克·施密特
Life is a social experience first, and the best aspects of that experience are not lonely ones—they are spent in the company of others.
——Eric Schmidt
生活首先是一種社交體驗，而這一體驗中最精彩的部分不是一個人寂寞獨享的——而是有他人陪伴度過的。
——埃里克·施密特
John Legend
Years from now, when you look back at your time here on earth, your life and your happiness will be way more defined by the quality of your relationships, not the quantity. You’ll get much more joy out of depth, not breadth.
——John Legend
多年以后，當(dāng)你回顧自己的一生，你會發(fā)現(xiàn)，你的人生和你的幸福更多地是由你與別人交往的層次，而非你生命中過客的數(shù)量所決定的。比起泛泛而交，深層次的交往會帶給你更多的快樂。
——約翰·傳奇
Love yourself, love your work, love the people around you. Dare to love those who are different from you, no matter where they’re from, what they look like, and who they love. Pursue this life of love with focus and passion and ambition and courage. Give it your all. And that will be your path to true success.
——John Legend
愛自己，愛工作，愛你身邊的人。要敢于愛那些和你不一樣的人，無論他們來自何方，樣子如何，愛著誰。用你的專注、激情、干勁和勇氣去追求這愛的人生。全情投入，它會帶你走向真正的成功。
——約翰·傳奇
Pause before you put a rumor out there as fact. Just because you saw it on the Web, just because you saw it on the television show, just because you read it on the newspaper, it doesn’t mean it’s true.
——Maria Shriver
在你把謠言當(dāng)作事實傳播之前，停下來。你在網(wǎng)絡(luò)上看過，在電視節(jié)目中見過，在報紙上讀過，不代表它就是真的。
——瑪麗亞·施萊弗
Pause before you hit that “send” button and forward a picture that could ruin somebody’s life—or write something nasty on someone’s Wall because you think it’s funny.
——Maria Shriver
在點擊“發(fā)送”按鈕前停下來，在轉(zhuǎn)發(fā)可能破壞他人生活的圖片之前停下來，也不要因為你覺得很有趣就在別人的留言板上寫一些骯臟下流的話。
——瑪麗亞·施萊弗
Peter Salovey
In today’s world, where you can have seven hundred followers on Twitter and a thousand friends on Facebook, it may seem easy to have a large circle. But if you’re bombarded with the same stories, the same memes, and the same opinions from all your so-called friends, then your world may in fact be quite narrow. A conversation with six friends in real life actually may lead to a greater variety of ideas and perspectives.
——Peter Salovey
當(dāng)今世上，你能夠擁有700個推特粉絲及1000個臉書好友，畫大圈看起來似乎挺容易。但是如果你所謂的朋友用同樣的故事、同樣的文化基因和同樣的觀點轟炸你，你的世界實際上也許是非常狹隘的?，F(xiàn)實生活中和三五好友的一次談話都能產(chǎn)生更多不一樣的觀點和視角。
——彼得·沙洛維
We must be able to talk with our opponents even though we disagree with them.
——Peter Salovey
我們必須能夠和我們的對手進(jìn)行對話，即便我們觀點不一致。
——彼得·沙洛維
My second piece of advice is to draw as many circles as you can. One circle will be your work. Make sure you enjoy it, but make sure you have other circles as well.
——Peter Salovey
我的第二條建議是要盡可能地多畫圈。一個圈是你的工作。確保你享受你的工作，但也要確保你還有其他的圈。
——彼得·沙洛維
So if someone takes an interest in your work and your career, be open to their advice, and think about what you can bring to the relationship.
——Steve Blank
如果有人對你的工作和你的職業(yè)感興趣，要樂于傾聽他們的建議，并思考你能為這段關(guān)系帶來什么。
——史蒂夫·布蘭克
Steve Wozniak
There’s a type of bigotry in this world that’s prominent: you have to be like me, or you’re not good. Get that out of your soul.
——Steve Wozniak
在這個世界上存在著一種不容忽視的偏執(zhí)觀點：你必須跟我一樣，否則你就是不好的。把這個想法從你的靈魂中趕出去。
——史蒂夫·沃茲尼亞克
Never sell anyone short; pay attention and pay respect. Sometimes the simple wisdom of a kind heart impacts you the most.
——Kathrine Switzer
不要蒙騙任何人；關(guān)注并予以尊重。有時心地善良這一簡單的智慧會對你產(chǎn)生最為深遠(yuǎn)的影響。
——凱瑟琳·斯威策
Do call your parents at least once a week. Tell them you love them. Tell them you love them, and then ask for the money. Not the other way around.
——Helen Mirren
記得每周給父母打個電話，說你愛他們。先說愛他們，再伸手要錢。順序可別顛倒了。
——海倫·米倫